Ending Relationships In Your 30s

Mike Sheppard “But when I have been wrong about a girl in the past, it’s taken the wind out of my sails.“ I can’t figure out if it is worse to break up with someone or to be dumped anymore. But I’m sure it doesn’t matter. If you’ve been out there, you’ve been through both […]




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Getty Images “Looking back, I was a big Challenge to her. The only problem is that she has a boyfriend.“ This week, Doc Love, author of “The System,“ doles out a dose of the cold, hard truth. Hey Doc, Greetings from a humble disciple. I met Carla at my job. She is the most beautiful girl on […]




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Love Past

Getty Images “I stood in the doorway watching out at her and couldn’t believe my luck when she called out to me to come stand with her.“ A few months ago, we asked for your stories of heartbreak and woe, for your personal accounts of when “the one” decided that she was done with you and kicked […]




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Infidelity In Marriage

Getty Images “Married life itself is typically arranged so that neither spouse is ever out unchaperoned late at night with pretty members of the opposite sex.“ Some years ago, my newspaper sent me abroad to cover a soccer tournament. As my newspaper is run by cheapskates, I ended up sharing a hotel room with two fellow […]




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Condoms And Pleasure

Getty Images “A lot of sexual arousal is psychological and often trumps the slight change in sensation when using a condom.“ Getting Used To Condoms Hey Doc, This new girl I’m hanging out with won’t have sex with me unless I wear a condom. I can’t stand rubbers or the way they feel. Any advice? […]




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Calling A Woman

Getty Images “The idea that the medium is the message applies as much to flirting or friendship as it does to business and culture.“ I was at a party, and a friend of mine met a girl. It was standard house-party stuff — too hot and overcrowded, with bad snacks and warm beer. They chatted, […]




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On The Rebound

Getty Images “Not only was she new, and after 6 years, new is a lot more than just “new,” but she also shared my sense of humor and most of my interests.“ A few weeks ago we asked for your stories of heartbreak and woe, for your personal accounts of when “the one” decided that she […]




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Why Online Date?

Getty Images “The line between regular social networking and online dating has blurred“ So how was your Valentine’s Day? Spend it alone again? Did you stare at your TV and wonder why you aren’t dining by candlelight and eating chocolate? Did you wrap up the evening with a little internet porn? It’s fine.  I won’t […]




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Past Love

Getty Images “Challenge was not there, interest dropped and, when I finally got back, Kelly had moved on.“ This week, Doc Love, author of “The System,” tells our reader to let the past stay buried.Hey Doc, Let me start by saying that I consider you to be the single source of truth when it comes to love […]




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Seinfeld Cast On OKCupid

NBC We’ve been fans of the Twitter feed @SeinfeldToday since it began last year. In time for Valentine’s Day, the feed’s creators have put together online profiles for the four main characters, using the popular dating service OKCupid. Not surprisingly, Elaine’s profile is getting plenty of messages from interested suitors.  Next Page AskMen’s Free Weekly […]




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Dating Diary: Part 2

Getty Images “‘Did you really just ask us that?’ the blonde snarled at him.“ When I was summoned to an event for a New York City district attorney, I was thrilled. Another excuse to don a suit, pretend I’m more important than I am and hobnob with Gotham’s elite. After the soirée ended, my roommate Ben and […]




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The Breakup

Getty Images “She had a cute face and breasts as big as her heart.“ A few weeks ago, we asked for your stories of heartbreak and woe, for your personal accounts of when “the one” decided that she was done with you and kicked you to the curb. We asked because we know that, even […]




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