“Leave it like that. You might run into her a few weeks later and she might be in the mood – and you’ve already planted the seed.“
Have you always wanted to go on a date, sleep with the woman immediately and never see her again? Do you find yourself at the bar on a Friday night looking around and wondering how to land that one-night stand? Here are three ways of pulling it off.
Situation No. 1: On A Date
Let’s say you’re on a date and you like her, but you know you don’t like her enough to be your girlfriend. You know that you don’t want to spend the next month pretending to like her, pretending to want to have a relationship with her, just so you can get in her pants.
So, here you go: You’re laughing with her, you’re having a good time, and then it all comes down to the crucial moment: How do you tell this beautiful woman sitting across from you that you do not want a relationship but would like to sleep with her?
This is what I’d do: Look directly in her eyes and do not break eye contact. Then say this: “Listen, I’m not looking for a relationship right now. I think you’re wonderful, but I’ve got to tell you that I know I can’t give you what you need right now, and there’s no reason for us to do the dance. But I do find you intriguing, really alluring and incredibly sexy, and I would love to spend the night with you tonight and show you exactly how I feel right now.”
Do not break eye contact at this moment because this is going to tell whether you’re strong and not afraid, and it’s also going to show her that you’re a guy who’s done this before and you’re going to give her a good time.
She might hem, she might haw a little bit, and she might say, “Well I’m not really looking for a one-night stand.” That’s when you look at her again and say this: “I’m honest. I really don’t like to play games at all. I could have lied to you, and I could have told you I wanted a relationship. I could have pursued you like a lot of guys do, just to get into your pants, and then leave you confused when I don’t call. But I have to tell you I am so intrigued by what you feel like. I can’t stop thinking about how you and I would be together, because I know just by looking at you there are a lot of things that I can do to make you feel unbelievable tonight. And I really would like that opportunity to do that right now.”
Once again, do not hesitate. The choice is hers. If she says no, look at her and tell her you understand and respect that. Leave it at that. You might run into her a few weeks later, and she might be in the mood — and you’ve already planted the seed.
Situation No. 2: At The Bar
So, you’re at a bar and you’re looking around. You find the one woman who keeps breaking away from her friends. She’s constantly breaking for the bathroom, going to the bar herself to get a drink. She’s basically turning her back on the group and looking at different men.
What she’s doing is trying to find the guy who she can either get a date with or have a fling with. What you need to do is become very playful with her. Call her out on what she’s doing. Walk by and say, “I know what you’re doing tonight, and I know what you’re looking for. I’ve been watching you. I’ll be back.” Leave a little bit of intrigue. About 10 minutes later, whisper in her ear and say, “What was wrong with that guy? Was that guy not the one for you for the night? I know you’re interviewing tonight; I can see it.”
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