- Better Man in brief …
- If what you’re doing is a little off the wall, make sure she’s agreed to it.
- Real sex is not like sex in porn.
- Don’t forget to be a passionate lover – kissing is a good start.
“Helping you become a Better Man means helping you become a better lover.“
When you’re about to have sex with a woman, the last thing you want to do is turn her off. A lot of men are unaware of what they’re doing wrong in bed, which is where AskMen comes in. We’re always here to help you in the areas of your life you may be too shy to ask about (who wants to admit that he might be less than stellar between the sheets?).
Helping you become a Better Man means helping you become a better lover, and toward that end, we want to make sure you’re aware of these nine mistakes to avoid in bed. (While this advice helps you, in the long run we’re just looking to get in good with the ladies everywhere.)
1- Not kissing
Believe it or not, many men don’t kiss the woman they’re with when they’re having sex — and that’s one of the biggest mistakes to avoid in bed. Why don’t these men kiss? Perhaps because the positioning doesn’t allow for it. Nevertheless, we recommend that you make an effort to kiss your woman when you’re inside her.
2- Biting before she’s ready
While plenty of women enjoy an aggressive man, biting any part of her body before she’s fully aroused may lead to pain and discomfort. Make sure she’s fully excited before you bite her nipples, shoulders, neck, or any other part of her body.
3- Ignoring everything but sexualized parts
Breasts and vaginas are great — no doubt — but you should definitely pay attention to other parts of her body. Lick behind her knees, kiss her wrists, rub her back, caress her stomach; focus on her entire body. It’ll turn her on more and, in turn, increase the chances of her pleasuring you back.
4- Putting your weight on her
It’s OK to lose yourself in the moment every once in a while and go crazy on your woman. However, when you’re lying on top of her, you have to be careful not to drop your weight on her, in essence hindering her ability to breathe properly — which is never a good thing during sex.
We have five more mistakes to avoid in bed, including why you shouldn’t let go to soon, and when you do, tell her… Next Page